Picture this – you’ve designed a lovely garden. Everyone is happy with it. Even the builders have followed the plan to the letter, no one has changed or accidentally botched the design! It’s almost finished. You know on completion it will look great…
All that remains is to put in the perfect planting scheme and viola! It’s done! (Yes I know I’ve spelt “voilà” incorrectly but as you will see, my version is more relevant!).
Backstory…
I’m commissioned to design a garden in Spain. It is situated in a stunning location. Beautiful house, beautiful scenery. Awkward shape garden (the type I love to design) and the potential to create a lovely courtyard garden. And it’s in SPAIN, did I mention that!! They have sun there!
I get the call to go out and do my thing at the exact point I’m beginning to set up the Successful Garden Design website to help show homeowners how to design their garden. In order to help people understand about garden design, it helps to show examples. So with permission from the owners, I video the whole process from garden survey to the build.
Super – my first set of video tutorials will be set in a beautiful location (with sunshine). Much nicer for viewers, much nicer for me. The garden is built, bar the paving (that’s being shipped over next Spring). It’s November and a good time to get the plants in.
Falling flat on face at last hurdle time…
Here’s where it’s turning into a bit of a drama/unmitigated disaster (depending on how melodramatic you are feeling). Now it’s come down to plant choices I’m tearing my hair out. Mr Client wants to bring half of England out with him!
Going back to where we are, in Spain, with its Mediterranean climate, the sentence “I want to bring out a load of winter flowering pansies” wasn’t something I was expecting to hear! EVER! At first I thought it was a joke and laughed! Big error on my part – it is no joke! Seriously pansies!! I asked “Why?” and the answer was “Because it’s not something they have out here!”… No kidding!
And the list of unsuitable plants doesn’t end with pansies! Normally I’m very good when it comes to client wishes. I am very aware that it’s their garden. I don’t let client changes upset me, I work with them. So what’s happened this time? This time I’m emotionally involved. I’m passionate about this garden because I’m making the FATAL mistake of viewing this as ‘my’ garden.
The full picture…
There is one more piece of information you need to have the full picture. The clients I’m working for are my parents. They say never work for friends or relatives and now I see why! I’m incapable of being impartial. I thought I could be but I can’t.
I think the main issue is coming at the garden from two different perspectives. I want the garden to look good and work from a design & location perspective – I see exotic, Med planting with palms and Bourganvillias. A wonderful opportunity to grow all the plants we can’t grow well in the UK.
My father, on the other hand, is a plantsman. He loves plants as much as I love design. He is passionate about individual plant characteristics. He loves each and every plant and views them as living, breathing beauty. He’s not a plant snob. If he likes something, he likes it – including winter flowering pansies!
He also wants the palms but he wants to put them with everything else on his list. And I’ve not yet mentioned his love of colour – bright daffodil yellow and shocking pink together have been past favourites…
I am beginning to feel like the cruel daughter as I write this but the designer in me knows that you can’t just put all your favourite plants together and have it look good. It’s not as simple as that. Good planting design is about shape, form, colour and control.
Can you imagine what a disaster it would be if you were cooking and put ALL your favourite ingredients into one dish! And I mean everything – every single thing you love to eat in one dish! Imagine the conflict on your palette!
Designing a planting scheme is no different to cooking a good meal – you need to be disciplined with the ingredients or it will be disastrous. Too many random ingredients and your visual palette will get indigestion!
Even if you cut down on the ingredients, you still need to have harmony with the flavours you are creating. Mustard and marshmallows for instance, are going to be an awful combination. I feel the same is true about palm trees with pansies!
Not entirely sure how I’m going to resolve this situation – I may have to face facts that I can’t and let my father get on with it – it is his garden after all…
Out of all the gardens I could have chosen to spend months filming from start to finish, the one that’s meant to promote the Successful Garden Design Course and show hundreds/thousands of people how best to do a garden, could turn out to be my worst design nightmare!
Do feel free to laugh/commiserate or offer pearls of wisdom – leave your comment in the box below. In the meantime I have hair to pull out!
Rachel
P.S. I will be answering your garden design queries in the next post – if you have trouble visualising your finished garden design, we will look at how you can use that to your advantage…
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Whoa boy, do I know how you feel! I have always stated, that the toughest clients I have ever had to work with, were/are my parents. I suggest flowing bed lines, natural plantings and beautiful stone hardscapes, Dad wants concrete (painted), sheared yews and straight bedlines. I suggest developing the shade garden (their lot is treed), Mom constantly picks full sun perennials and annuals. I have resigned myself to pleasing their tastes, and satisfying my creativity with my my clients. All of your points are right on, but in the end, you make the best point of all, It is their garden. Ooooh that is so frustrationg to say!
Best of luck,
Scott
Oops, best of luck figuring it out with your parents! I say forget showcasing sunny Spain, who doesn’t love an English garden?
Hey Scott thanks for your comments – your dad sounds worse than mine! I feel so much better now – at least the design got through – it is *just* the plants! And plants can die, I’m sure there must be something in Spain that eats pansies (I will find something – should they appear!).
You have a great website, by the way ;o)
Hi Alison – good point, I should have perhaps stuck to English gardens! Oh well plenty of opportunity to film those…
My heartfelt commiserations! Mind you it will probably serve to illustrate some of the issues you face when designing gardens.
Understanding what your clients want and delivering to their wishes is always challenging, I nearly got involved in trying to advise my parents on their garden recently. I would have needed to transport myself back to the great Percy Thrower to even come close to understanding what they thought they wanted, so I gracefully backed away leaving them to argue the finer points! Neither had any real idea of what they wanted or why, which made it all the more difficult – at least your father knows what he likes – violas or otherwise!
Good luck!
Hi Tim
Yeah, that’s what I thought – things don’t always go according to plan! It’s good to show that and it helps people see why things need to be done in a certain way.
Sounds like you definitely did the right thing with your parents – my viola problem, is beginning to look much smaller now! Thank you.
Seeing you here has reminded me I’ve not logged onto the http://www.garden-network.co.uk/ for a while – will go there now and see what’s new in the world of gardening…
R
I’m still laughing! It will, in the end look fabulous… through the frustrations and difficult colour matching, it will look grand. Looking forward to seeing the videos and the finished project.
Now, you have sparked my interest in a mushroom and mustard rissotto….
I really liked the look of your site but then you lost me at –
” The garden is built, bar the paving (that’s being shipped over next Spring).”
What, Spain dosen’t have local paving materials? or maybe your environmental impact hasn’t occurred to you?
You make a good point Rosalind. Which building materials to use has been something that I’ve really tussled with over the years. Natural stone has to be shipped a long way, not to mention, taken out of the earth and the alternative products cause a lot of pollutants and use a lot of resources in the production process.
There isn’t a good paving solution, ideally a more natural garden without the use of paving materials but the majority of people don’t seem to want that at the moment.
Thankfully, there is a growing awareness that we can’t carry on not thinking of the environmental impact. It won’t happen over night but we are getting there.
Demand for environmentally friendlier products will force manufacturers to change their product range. There are some amazing eco-gardens being created and I think, the more that are done well, will make people embrace them and want one for themselves.
The stance I take on this is, I let the customer decide what they want to use. Yes, you may view that as a cop out. But you cannot force people to change. Encouraging them by showing alternatives is the way forward.
A cop out indeed ! and as you’re aiming to teach people with your videos a really surprising one.
This might give you some food for thought.
http://www.google.com/reader/view/#stream/feed%2Fhttp%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2Fgardendesigncourses
and this
http://www.ethicaltrade.org/news-and-events/news/ITN-highlights-child-labour-in-indian-sandstone-production
and even this
http://www.mongabay.com/brazil.html
Thanks for links Rosalind.
As far as the ethical Indian sandstone goes, we only use suppliers that have the the Ethical Trading Policy in place. However, that doesn’t mean that it’s a perfect system.
In the course I do layout, pretty much the conversation we are having here so people can make an informed decision on the materials they use. I will read through the web pages on your feed, they may be good ones to add to the course.
Do you have a website with this type of information up? If so send me the link.
Not quite yet but working on it!
Good. Let me know when it is up and running.
And if anyone else has a useful resource website, please let me know about it.
I think you should just be glad it was your parents. Imagine the fight you would have had with other clients. Or maybe this comes up all the time. I didn’t have a designer but I know how it goes. I was very tempted by a gorgeous pot of foxgloves last week and I bought it. At least I can enjoy a little bit of England in Texas for a couple of weeks. This from a girl who gives tours at the Wildflower Center, promoting native plants. Ah, well!
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Actually clients tend to be much easier! I think because they are paying for the advice they tend to heed it! Or at least they wait till I’ve gone before they do add odd things!
I’m all for indulging plant choices as long as it doesn’t ruin the overall effect, you can usually get away with bit of indulging but daffodils and palm trees is one step too far! I’m sure you’ll get away with the foxgloves.
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